Many people believe that they have no chance of finding love and romance after 50. Whether it is a divorce or death that has left one single, the situation can leave one feeling terrified. However, all isn’t lost and you mustn’t think that there is no chance for you to find love or romance again. There are people out there for you so all you need to do is look in the right place. Let us discuss some ways of finding love after 50, places where to begin, where to go and what to expect.

1. Let go of the past

The more you hold on to memories of your partner, the harder it will be for you to find love after 50. It is absolutely possible to meet your soul mate no matter what your age. But the first thing you have to do is let go. Unless you let go in your heart, you cannot make room for new relationships.You also need to drop expectations of all kinds. If you are going to search for your spouse/partner in every new relationship, things will just not work out and you will tremendously hurt your chances of finding love or romance again.

2. Stop seeking validation from others

Fifties is the time of receding hairlines and expanding waists. However these are no reasons to hold you back. First of all, you must stop thinking of yourself as a loser and look at your situation positively. Think of it as having been given a second chance at love. It is very important that you work a bit on your self esteem before you start your search for romance or love. Lose weight, learn something new and discover a whole new side to yourself. This renewed confidence will definitely increase your chances getting married or at least finding romance after 50 plus.

3. Look up old friends

Do not mistakenly assume that all your old friends are happily married and thriving. Ask around. Social media is a good place to start. We are not suggesting that you stalk people; not, definitely not! However, it is a great place to start communicating with old buddies. If possible, meet up with old girlfriends/boyfriends so you can slowly get back on the scene. The chances of connecting with someone you knew in your youth will definitely increase your chances of finding romance again.


4. Let people know of your plans

Talk to people, family members, friends, colleagues, ex-co-workers and even neighbors. Let them know that you are looking for new beginnings. Ask them, if they can, to hook you up with someone.

5. Visit places for singles

Go to bars or clubs, even if you do not like it. These are some of the best places to find a partner. Yes, it might be uncomfortable in the beginning especially if you are not fond of music or dancing or drinking; but as long as you keep yourself self, there is no reason why you should not have fun in the process. It is completely natural to feel a bit awkward going out alone, at least in the beginning. If that is the case, take a friend with you. Also scope out singles in your neighboring grocery store- you can never tell where your potential partner is waiting for you!

6. Travel

If you have money and are retired, travel a bit. This will not increase your chances of finding love after 50 but it will definitely broaden your perspective and also help you feel more energetic, young and alive.

7. Get involved in community work

Community work is a great place to meet like-minded people. You will make many friends in the process and when you help others, you definitely feel very good about yourself.

8. Use Internet dating

This is the easiest way to meet all kinds of men/women along with information about their background, ethnicity, hair-waistlines etc. Be very careful though; the Internet is a seductive place where nothing is what it seems. So never ever reveal sensitive details about your finances and never meet anyone in a secluded area. Follow all precautions possible before hooking up with someone you have met online. Get to really know the person before making any commitments.

9. Learn something new


Take a class, learn a skill or language or opt for dancing lessons. You will surely meet someone you like and also keep your brain younger in the process!