Many female friends and Clients ask me “Why do men cheat? Why does a guy go to a Prostitute/Escort?”. While I’ve never been to one, and Never will, it made me ponder some of these questions posed to me.
If you asked all your male friends if they’ve ever visited a prostitute, you might be surprised by their honest answer. A study discovered that 15% of American men had paid for sex at some point in their life. The stats surprised me—they were higher than I had expected—but then I realized that I’ve known men who have frequented the services of ladies of the night-and Not because they could not get a woman. A few indulged on a bachelor’s trip to Las Vegas, another hired a prostitute every night on his way home from the pub and yet another hired services online a couple times a month. So I thought I’d ask them outright: Why do / did you pay for sex? The answers are way simpler than you’d imagine:
1. Men want to sleep with MUCH hotter women.
“If I’m being brutally honest, the hottest women I’ve ever f*cked have been sex workers … I would never be able to f*ck women who are ridiculously hot unless they were prostitutes.”
This was the top reason they all gave. I was surprised since the guys I asked are all good-looking, successful in their chosen fields and have no problem getting dates. But they all agreed that to sleep with stunning women, the easiest way was simply to pay.
2. Men want to be in control.
“I still want to make sure that the woman is having a good time. But truthfully, I’m more concerned that I’m getting what I want since I paid for it. And because I paid for it, I’m not afraid to ask.”
Most of them said there’s something very hot in being able to ask for what you want in bed and get it, no questions asked. (Although one guy did admit he paid a prostitute once so that SHE could be in charge.) But generally, they all admitted to being more open about what they wanted and more physically satisfied when they paid for sex. Emotionally, of course, remains to be seen.
3. Men want to indulge in a fantasy.
“I like to try things—I’m not going to say what—that a girlfriend told me was kinky. When I pay a hooker, I’m not worried about what I ask for. Nothing shocks them.”
Although most of the guys I spoke to were all single, the old cliche of men asking prostitutes for certain “services” that would offend their wives still seems to exist. One man said that he’d never had better oral sex in his life than with a prostitute.
4. Men want to find the quickest route to having sex.
“Getting a prostitute is so easy: no strings attached, you can choose